This weekend many of us will gather around the dinner table set with the finest dishes and crystal. The centre piece will be the golden brown, perfectly cooked, aromatic turkey. The table will be flanked with all the fixings that go along with Thanksgiving dinner. When everyone is gathered around the table, a tradition is for all to share one thing that they are grateful for. I know. My family groans and moans too. But just for a minute, everyone is in the present, in a